Going abroad tommorow at 8 am
hmm i hope it's a good trips and make my life more merry this year (after all that sorrow things)
hey did i forgot to mention that today is Mothers Days and my Sister birthday.
hahaha .... almost forget....
well i'll just bring some things to someone special then.... no money for more (^_^)v *smirk*
see you blog
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Virus
Ckckckck akhirnya kantor ku berkenalan dengan virus juga
namanya Sality dan varian namanya di berbagai antivirus cukup banyak seperti di KAV dikenal sebagai Sality.AG
hebat juga virus ini. saat buka ie dan searching antivirus untuk didownload sepertinya dia detect langsung ie ditutup.
semua exe jadi 8 kb
safemode langsung bluescreen
install setup av langsung blue screen
kalo pun berhasil maka Av itu akan disable terus
kalo Av nya maksa jalan maka akan blue screen juga
untung anak support IT ada yg bawa CD boot. jadi aku bisa booting lewat CD lalu berantas semua virus.....
virusnya juga sudah nyebar ke server dan ke beberapa client, aku curiga juga ada yg sudah sampai lampung. untungnya server sana punya NOD yg terupdate tapi kliennya ada yg berusaha attack dari network terus.....
gara2 virus ini aku sampai gak bisa kerja 3 hari. eh bentar sebenernya aku tetap produktif sih. karena jika ada masalah kita masih bisa kerja secara remote desktop ke server developing.... dan juga biasanya trouble shooting ku berkutat di masalah data jadi connect ke sql server dan query analyser deh.
(^_^)v
hehehe another lesson from my world of IT, always prepare a good cd boot rom.
see you blog
namanya Sality dan varian namanya di berbagai antivirus cukup banyak seperti di KAV dikenal sebagai Sality.AG
hebat juga virus ini. saat buka ie dan searching antivirus untuk didownload sepertinya dia detect langsung ie ditutup.
semua exe jadi 8 kb
safemode langsung bluescreen
install setup av langsung blue screen
kalo pun berhasil maka Av itu akan disable terus
kalo Av nya maksa jalan maka akan blue screen juga
untung anak support IT ada yg bawa CD boot. jadi aku bisa booting lewat CD lalu berantas semua virus.....
virusnya juga sudah nyebar ke server dan ke beberapa client, aku curiga juga ada yg sudah sampai lampung. untungnya server sana punya NOD yg terupdate tapi kliennya ada yg berusaha attack dari network terus.....
gara2 virus ini aku sampai gak bisa kerja 3 hari. eh bentar sebenernya aku tetap produktif sih. karena jika ada masalah kita masih bisa kerja secara remote desktop ke server developing.... dan juga biasanya trouble shooting ku berkutat di masalah data jadi connect ke sql server dan query analyser deh.
(^_^)v
hehehe another lesson from my world of IT, always prepare a good cd boot rom.
see you blog
Sunday, December 07, 2008
Rainbow
Lagi jalan2 ke tempat client seminggu yg lalu ....
pas abis hujan
eh ada rainbow.... hmm so beautiful... dan kalo diperhatikan lebih jelas ternyata rainbownya itu multi layer ya... jadi seperti ada shadownya tapi warna-warni juga.....
see you blog
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Semarang Here I Come
Hehehe akhirnya aku dateng juga ke Semarang, bersama Faran jlek naik pesawat untuk menghadiri merit si Panda dan Novi
yah karena kita semua org sibuk sampai gak bisa ketemu dan diskusi cuma lewat percakapan pendek di hp dan sms, akhirnya aku dan faran sendiri beli tike pesawat online. hampir aja si faran beli tike yg Mandala Airline punya. mahal nian sampai 800rb an. untung aku cari yg lain, mulai dari airasia (gak ada), sriwijaya (ga ada) akhirnya lion air dapet yg 500rb. PP. dari sabtu jam 2-3 dan pulang minggu jam 3-4
begitu sampai di airport baru terlihat kalo print report ebooking ku koq gak ada nama Wiewie ya???? sambil bertanya dalam hati, petugas yg terima check in nya minta aku untuk cek kode booking ke loket lion air. ckckckck ternyata mungkin webnya ada error kali. punya si Faran ada namanya. sekalian sama adik faran , Ferran, kita mencari petugas lion air dan minta penjelasan tambahan surat untuk memberitahu nama Wiewie ada disitu. sekalian buat pulangnya juga, jangan sampai tambah ribet dunk.
Untung aku dan faran juga cuma bawa Handcarry jadi gak perlu repot urus baggage. nyaman dan cepat.... cuma buat inep 1 malam saja.
sambil nunggu waktu berlalu ngobrol macem ama feran dan faran. hehehe sekalian gosipa-gosipi mulai dari milis yg rame soal merit dan pelajaran spam. hahahaha
akhirnya sampai di semarang setelah 1 jam perjalanan. sampai disana tanya dikit buat naik taxi ke hotel tujuan. sebelumnya aku sih udah reservation untuk booking penginapan juga. cari yg paling murah deh. Hotel Blambangan. ternyata tidak begitu mirip hotel lebih mirip kos binus tapi bersih dan super luas dan banyak kamar. mungkin sebutannya losmen. cocok deh buat kita cuma 135 rb. dapet 2 single bed.
lalu mulai deh mikirin cara mencapai Sri Ratu tempat panda merit. ternyata deket banget. cuma beda 50 meter dari Blambangan. lalu si Faran mau beli lumpia semarang mbak lien yg terkenal itu. ternyata deket banget cuma 20 meteran. astaga ternyata Hotel Blambangan memang serba strategis dan prktis untuk urusan kita.
so jam 4.30 an kita jalan2 di mal sri ratu dulu muter sambil si faran ternyata laper duluan. jadi makan dulu. ckckck.. padahal entar malem kan mau makan. tapi yah aku juga temenin deh. hehehe
so finally acaranya mulai, ternyata weddingnya pakai sistem resepsi meja. jadi kita semua duduk manis di meja bundar yang ada tulisan "Friends" atau "Family" atau "Mitra" gitu deh. udah dapet tempat yg pewe dan strategis kita tunggu deh. akhirnya si panda dateng bersama novi. hmmm kurusan. pasti diet.... (^_^)v hahahaha
yah banyak acara dance dan nyanyi. kata faran kayq acara gebyar bca. hehehe
ketemu panda n novi pas lagi muter bagi2 kue untuk yg belum merit. dan di akhir acara ketemu dia lagi di pintu keluar. turut happy for you two. may life always blissfull and happy for you two.
abis itu balik ke losmen Blambangan. lalu si faran mulai deh isenknya. mau spa n pijat... ckckckck seperti biasa aku kena culik.... (;_;) aku ambil yg versi light aja deh. akhirnya jam 11 malam baru selesai. sayang gak bisa ajak panda. pasti lagi kecapekan di panda's nest of love. hihihihi.... senangnya sudah dewasa jadi porsi joke bisa naik level. hehehehe *laughter of evil*
Seperti biasa sampai kamar aku main NDS dengan si Faran kadang sering ganggu. abis itu sleep deh. besoknya bermalas2an ria sampai jam 10 pagi. cari makan di alun yang ternayta DEKETjuga. astaga.... dapet sih nasi rawon tapi koq mahal ya? 10 rb. hmmm ya sudah lah makan juga. si Faran makan tongseng kalo ga salah. lebih mahal juga 15rb.
after that bermalas2an lagi. aku sleep karena tiba2 pusink. si Faran main NDS lagi....
sampai di airport Achmad Yani. jam 1 an. makan KFC bentar karena Faran laper lagi... seperti biasa aku temenin lagi. untung cuaca cuma mendung tapi gak hujan2. akhirnya sampai jakarta deh. sedikit gerimis pas naik mobil dijemput ama adik.
Hmm dapet kabar agak buruk mengenai nenekku dari nyokap. sepertinya kondisinya tambah parah dan masuk ICU. semoga bisa sembuh. sekarang nyokap dan keluarga lagi ada yg ronda di rs. entah malem ini aku ketemu atau tidak.
well see you blog.
yah karena kita semua org sibuk sampai gak bisa ketemu dan diskusi cuma lewat percakapan pendek di hp dan sms, akhirnya aku dan faran sendiri beli tike pesawat online. hampir aja si faran beli tike yg Mandala Airline punya. mahal nian sampai 800rb an. untung aku cari yg lain, mulai dari airasia (gak ada), sriwijaya (ga ada) akhirnya lion air dapet yg 500rb. PP. dari sabtu jam 2-3 dan pulang minggu jam 3-4
begitu sampai di airport baru terlihat kalo print report ebooking ku koq gak ada nama Wiewie ya???? sambil bertanya dalam hati, petugas yg terima check in nya minta aku untuk cek kode booking ke loket lion air. ckckckck ternyata mungkin webnya ada error kali. punya si Faran ada namanya. sekalian sama adik faran , Ferran, kita mencari petugas lion air dan minta penjelasan tambahan surat untuk memberitahu nama Wiewie ada disitu. sekalian buat pulangnya juga, jangan sampai tambah ribet dunk.
Untung aku dan faran juga cuma bawa Handcarry jadi gak perlu repot urus baggage. nyaman dan cepat.... cuma buat inep 1 malam saja.
sambil nunggu waktu berlalu ngobrol macem ama feran dan faran. hehehe sekalian gosipa-gosipi mulai dari milis yg rame soal merit dan pelajaran spam. hahahaha
akhirnya sampai di semarang setelah 1 jam perjalanan. sampai disana tanya dikit buat naik taxi ke hotel tujuan. sebelumnya aku sih udah reservation untuk booking penginapan juga. cari yg paling murah deh. Hotel Blambangan. ternyata tidak begitu mirip hotel lebih mirip kos binus tapi bersih dan super luas dan banyak kamar. mungkin sebutannya losmen. cocok deh buat kita cuma 135 rb. dapet 2 single bed.
lalu mulai deh mikirin cara mencapai Sri Ratu tempat panda merit. ternyata deket banget. cuma beda 50 meter dari Blambangan. lalu si Faran mau beli lumpia semarang mbak lien yg terkenal itu. ternyata deket banget cuma 20 meteran. astaga ternyata Hotel Blambangan memang serba strategis dan prktis untuk urusan kita.
so jam 4.30 an kita jalan2 di mal sri ratu dulu muter sambil si faran ternyata laper duluan. jadi makan dulu. ckckck.. padahal entar malem kan mau makan. tapi yah aku juga temenin deh. hehehe
so finally acaranya mulai, ternyata weddingnya pakai sistem resepsi meja. jadi kita semua duduk manis di meja bundar yang ada tulisan "Friends" atau "Family" atau "Mitra" gitu deh. udah dapet tempat yg pewe dan strategis kita tunggu deh. akhirnya si panda dateng bersama novi. hmmm kurusan. pasti diet.... (^_^)v hahahaha
yah banyak acara dance dan nyanyi. kata faran kayq acara gebyar bca. hehehe
ketemu panda n novi pas lagi muter bagi2 kue untuk yg belum merit. dan di akhir acara ketemu dia lagi di pintu keluar. turut happy for you two. may life always blissfull and happy for you two.
abis itu balik ke losmen Blambangan. lalu si faran mulai deh isenknya. mau spa n pijat... ckckckck seperti biasa aku kena culik.... (;_;) aku ambil yg versi light aja deh. akhirnya jam 11 malam baru selesai. sayang gak bisa ajak panda. pasti lagi kecapekan di panda's nest of love. hihihihi.... senangnya sudah dewasa jadi porsi joke bisa naik level. hehehehe *laughter of evil*
Seperti biasa sampai kamar aku main NDS dengan si Faran kadang sering ganggu. abis itu sleep deh. besoknya bermalas2an ria sampai jam 10 pagi. cari makan di alun yang ternayta DEKETjuga. astaga.... dapet sih nasi rawon tapi koq mahal ya? 10 rb. hmmm ya sudah lah makan juga. si Faran makan tongseng kalo ga salah. lebih mahal juga 15rb.
after that bermalas2an lagi. aku sleep karena tiba2 pusink. si Faran main NDS lagi....
sampai di airport Achmad Yani. jam 1 an. makan KFC bentar karena Faran laper lagi... seperti biasa aku temenin lagi. untung cuaca cuma mendung tapi gak hujan2. akhirnya sampai jakarta deh. sedikit gerimis pas naik mobil dijemput ama adik.
Hmm dapet kabar agak buruk mengenai nenekku dari nyokap. sepertinya kondisinya tambah parah dan masuk ICU. semoga bisa sembuh. sekarang nyokap dan keluarga lagi ada yg ronda di rs. entah malem ini aku ketemu atau tidak.
well see you blog.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Dark Area
well well, what do we have here. late at night, preparing for monday super morning and now wiewie is writing a blog.
Actually last saturday is quite ad adventurous for me. My client taking me to a spa massage. well it's quite all right unlike the title of this articles. sorry for the dissapointment.
but what else should i say. taking shower, joining with my associates in hot tub talking about terroris or heroes, raining season, financial disaster, bla bla bla. and then the sauna. after that taking a massage in a semi dark room. well i don't know who's the therapis is but i guess she 's a quite an experience (1 year experience)....
at least my back pain is gone but she says that since this is my first massage especially with the foot shiatsu, tomorrow the body will be feeling pain because my muscle first time experience with the massage.
well it is. hiks... but the pain is different. at least....
ok then i;m going to sleep
see you blog
Actually last saturday is quite ad adventurous for me. My client taking me to a spa massage. well it's quite all right unlike the title of this articles. sorry for the dissapointment.
but what else should i say. taking shower, joining with my associates in hot tub talking about terroris or heroes, raining season, financial disaster, bla bla bla. and then the sauna. after that taking a massage in a semi dark room. well i don't know who's the therapis is but i guess she 's a quite an experience (1 year experience)....
at least my back pain is gone but she says that since this is my first massage especially with the foot shiatsu, tomorrow the body will be feeling pain because my muscle first time experience with the massage.
well it is. hiks... but the pain is different. at least....
ok then i;m going to sleep
see you blog
Saturday, November 08, 2008
Sadness
yah ternyata hari ini melihat berita yg membuat ku sedih
bt
is this a good time to stop?
well if you already heard my stories about when to stop then i think you have a pretty good guess of what happen.
see you blog
bt
is this a good time to stop?
well if you already heard my stories about when to stop then i think you have a pretty good guess of what happen.
see you blog
Sunday, October 19, 2008
Tough Week
wow so busy lately that i almost forgot that i haven't update my blog
let me see..
ok first week before islamic holiday of eud dhul fitri (i hope i spell it right)
totally disaster, just a few minutes before 5 o'clock at friday, suddenly my office unit outside jakarta lost some GL data, luckily my senior and manager are there to help but the still need my assistance in querying the database. and worst thing is i cannot help them coz the network is down from both sides. my HQ sides is temporarily shutdown for replacing new UPS unit and in other sides some unknown problem in the network (which can be found out later due to the cable is not fit properly to the switch)
so there i am, working until 9 night, querying sql data, with no sample data at all just relying to my instinct and the help of telephone. luckily all my query turn out to be A OK. yess i haven't forgot those d*mn sql query, they're all so logical don't they?
after that hectic friday, i go home anxiously waiting for holiday to meet a certain someone. hehehe just my luck. it's ok i just have a great week for the holiday, i hope she feels the same too
So wondering around, TA, GrandIndonesia (the dancing fountain simply lovely), FX , watching Laskar Pelangi and Dungeon Siege.
eh did i mention that i got a new projects? humm quite easy but hectic as always due to my last programmer is not the same vision with me, now i have to redo many of his works and simplified some things.....
*sigh* same vision and structured language are important because when you asked by the clients you have to understand to underlying knowledge of the logic application so you can assured them that we know, we see it, and we can do it... or not.
let me see..
ok first week before islamic holiday of eud dhul fitri (i hope i spell it right)
totally disaster, just a few minutes before 5 o'clock at friday, suddenly my office unit outside jakarta lost some GL data, luckily my senior and manager are there to help but the still need my assistance in querying the database. and worst thing is i cannot help them coz the network is down from both sides. my HQ sides is temporarily shutdown for replacing new UPS unit and in other sides some unknown problem in the network (which can be found out later due to the cable is not fit properly to the switch)
so there i am, working until 9 night, querying sql data, with no sample data at all just relying to my instinct and the help of telephone. luckily all my query turn out to be A OK. yess i haven't forgot those d*mn sql query, they're all so logical don't they?
after that hectic friday, i go home anxiously waiting for holiday to meet a certain someone. hehehe just my luck. it's ok i just have a great week for the holiday, i hope she feels the same too
So wondering around, TA, GrandIndonesia (the dancing fountain simply lovely), FX , watching Laskar Pelangi and Dungeon Siege.
eh did i mention that i got a new projects? humm quite easy but hectic as always due to my last programmer is not the same vision with me, now i have to redo many of his works and simplified some things.....
*sigh* same vision and structured language are important because when you asked by the clients you have to understand to underlying knowledge of the logic application so you can assured them that we know, we see it, and we can do it... or not.
Friday, October 10, 2008
Cegah Bullying Sejak Dini
beberapa waktu lalu bicarain POM di binusian di forum diskusi BNCC, pedebatan yg cukup hot. tiba tiba lihat artikel ini di kompas
dikutip dari website www.kompas.com
http://www.kompas.com/read/xml/2008/10/10/05334528/cegah.bullying.sejak.dini
Jumat, 10 Oktober 2008 | 05:33 WIB
DI tahun 2007, beberapa kali kita dikejutkan oleh serangkaian berita-berita tentang kekerasan di sekolah dan geng remaja. Diawali dengan berita tentang Cliff Muntu-siswa STPDN, dan diakhiri dengan berita tentang geng Gazper di SMA 34 Pondok Labu. Ternyata di tahun 2008 kekerasan di kalangan remaja masih saja terjadi, berita yang terbaru adalah tentang ritual perpeloncoan geng remaja putri Nero dari Pati, kota kecil di Jawa Tengah dan kekerasan remaja putri di Kalimantan Tengah.
Seringkali kita merasa ngeri, prihatin dan tidak percaya dengan adanya fakta-fakta tersebut. Namun, tampaknya kekerasan memang telah menjadi bagian dari kehidupan remaja kita. Kekerasan antar sebaya atau bullying merupakan suatu tindak kekerasan fisik dan psikologis yang dilakukan seseorang atau kelompok, yang dimaksudkan untuk melukai, membuat takut atau membuat tertekan seseorang (anak atau siswa) lain yang dianggap lemah, yang biasanya secara fisik lebih lemah, minder dan kurang mempunyai teman, sehingga tidak mampu memertahankan diri. Alasan bullying seringkali tidak jelas, biasanya menggunakan kedok perpeloncoan, penggemblengan mental, ataupun aksi solidaritas.
Sebenarnya bullying tidak hanya meliputi kekerasan fisik, seperti memukul, menjambak, menampar, memalak, dll, tetapi juga dapat berbentuk kekerasan verbal, seperti memaki, mengejek, menggosip, dan berbentuk kekerasan psikologis, seperti mengintimidasi, mengucilkan, mendiskriminasikan. Berdasarkan sebuah survei terhadap perlakuan bullying, sebagian besar korban melaporkan bahwa mereka menerima perlakuan pelecehan secara psikologis (diremehkan). Kekerasan secara fisik, seperti didorong, dipukul, dan ditempeleng lebih umum di kalangan remaja pria.
Ada dua jenis pelaku bullying. Pertama, adalah pelaku utama, yaitu pihak yang merasa lebih berkuasa dan berinisiatif melakukan tindak kekerasan baik secara fisik maupun psikologis terhadap korban, dan kedua adalah pelaku pengikut, yaitu pihak yang ikut melakukan bullying berdasarkan solidaritas kelompok atau rasa setia kawan, konformitas, tuntutan kelompok, atau untuk mendapatkan penerimaan atau pengakuan kelompok. Di luar pihak pelaku dan korban sebenarnya ada sekelompok saksi, dimana saksi ini biasanya hanya bisa diam membiarkan kejadian berlangsung, tidak melakukan apapun untuk menolong korban, bahkan seringkali mendukung perlakuan bullying. Saksi cenderung tidak mau ikut campur disebabkan karena takut menjadi korban berikutnya, merasa korban pantas dibully, tidak mau menambah masalah atau tidak mau tahu.
Sebagai bagian dari masyarakat dan secara khusus sebagai orang tua, pasti kita bertanya-tanya mengapa remaja kita (bahkan remaja putri) dapat menjadi pelaku bullying, melakukan seangkaian kekerasan kepada sesama temannya. Perjalanan seorang anak tumbuh menjadi remaja pelaku agresi cukup kompleks, dapat dipengaruhi oleh berbagai faktor; biologis, psikologis dan sosialkultural. Secara biologis, ada kemungkinan bahwa beberapa anak secara genetik cenderung akan mengembangkan agresi dibanding anak yang lain. Dalam bukunya Developmental Psychopathology, Wenar & Kerig (2002) menambahkan bahwa agresi yang tinggi pada anak-anak dapat merupakan hasil dari abnormalitas neurologis.
Secara psikologis, anak yang agresif kurang memiliki kontrol diri dan sebenarnya memiliki ketrampilan sosial yang rendah; anak-anak ini memiliki kemampuan perspective taking yang rendah, empati terhadap orang lain yang tidak berkembang, dan salah mengartikan sinyal atau tanda-tanda sosial, mereka yakin bahwa agresi merupakan cara pemecahan masalah yang tepat dan efektif. Jika kita runut dari lingkungan keluarga, anak-anak yang mengembangkan perilaku agresif tumbuh dalam pengasuhan yang tidak kondusif; anak mengalami kelekatan (attachment) yang tidak aman dengan pengasuh terdekatnya, orang tua menerapkan disiplin yang terlalu keras ataupun terlalu longgar, dan biasanya ditemukan masalah psikologis pada orang tua; konflik suami-istri, depresi, bersikap antisosial, dan melakukan tindak kekerasan pada anggota keluarganya.
Terjadinya kekerasan antar sebaya semakin menguat mengingat adanya faktor pubertas dan krisis identitas, yang normal terjadi pada perkembangan remaja. Dalam rangka mencari identitas dan ingin eksis, biasanya remaja lalu gemar membentuk geng. Geng remaja sebenarnya sangat normal dan bisa berdampak positif, namun jika orientasi geng kemudian ’menyimpang’ hal ini kemudian menimbulkan banyak masalah. Dari relasi antar sebaya juga ditemukan bahwa beberapa remaja menjadi pelaku bullying karena ’balas dendam’ atas perlakuan penolakan dan kekerasan yang pernah dialami sebelumnya (misalnya saat di SD atau SMP).
Lingkungan secara makro pun turut berpengaruh terhadap munculnya bullying, baik secara langsung mauun tidak langsung. Secara sosiokultural, bullying dipandang sebagai wujud rasa frustrasi akibat tekanan hidup dan hasil imitasi dari lingkungan orang dewasa. Tanpa sadar, lingkungan memberikan referensi kepada remaja bahwa kekerasan bisa menjadi sebuah cara pemecahan masalah. Misalnya saja lingkungan preman yang sehari-hari dapat dilihat di sekitar mereka dan juga aksi kekerasan dari kelompok-kelompok massa. Belum lagi tontotan-tontonan kekerasan yang disuguhkan melalui media visual. Walaupun tak kasat mata, budaya feodal dan senioritas pun turut memberikan atmosfer dominansi dan menumbuhkan perilaku menindas.
Bullying harus diperangi. Bagaimanapun juga kita tidak dapat membiarkan generasi penerus kita menjadi penjahat-penjahat hak asasi manusia. Untuk mencegah dan menghambat munculnya tindak kekeraran di kalangan remaja, diperlukan peran dari semua pihak yang terkait dengan lingkungan kehidupan remaja. Sedini mungkin, anak-anak memperoleh lingkungan yang tepat. Keluarga-keluarga semestinya dapat menjadi tempat yang nyaman untuk anak dapat mengungkapkan pengalaman-pengalaman dan perasaan-perasaannya. Orang tua hendaknya mengevaluasi pola interaksi yang dimiliki selama ini dan menjadi model yang tepat dalam berinteraksi dengan orang lain. Berikan penguatan atau pujian pada perilaku pro sosial yang ditunjukkan oleh anak. Selanjutnya dorong anak untuk mengambangkan bakat atau minatnya dalam kegiatan-kegiatan dan orang tua tetap harus berkomunikasi dengan guru jika anak menunjukkan adanya masalah yang bersumber dari sekolah.
Untuk mencegah dan menekan tindakan bullying di sekolah, ada beberapa upaya yang dapat dilakukan oleh pihak sekolah, terutama di sekolah dasar sebagai lingkungan pendidikan formal pertama bagi anak. Selama ini, kebanyakan guru tidak terlalu memperhatikan apa yang terjadi di antara murid-muridnya. Sangat penting bahwa para guru memiliki pengetahuan dan ketrampilan mengenai pencegahan dan cara mengatasi bullying. Kurikulum sekolah dasar semestinya mengandung unsur pengembangan sikap prososial dan guru-guru memberikan penguatan pada penerapannya dalam kehidupan sehari-hari di sekolah. Sekolah sebaiknya mendukung kelompok-kelompok kegiatan agar diikuti oleh seluruh siswa. Selanjutnya sekolah menyediakan akses pengaduan atau forum dialog antara siswa dan sekolah, atau orang tua dan sekolah, dan membangun aturan sekolah dan sanksi yang jelas terhadap tindakan bullying.
Agnes Indar Etikawati, S.Psi, P.Si., M.Si, dosen pada Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Sanata Dharma, Yogyakarta
dikutip dari website www.kompas.com
http://www.kompas.com/read/xml/2008/10/10/05334528/cegah.bullying.sejak.dini
Jumat, 10 Oktober 2008 | 05:33 WIB
DI tahun 2007, beberapa kali kita dikejutkan oleh serangkaian berita-berita tentang kekerasan di sekolah dan geng remaja. Diawali dengan berita tentang Cliff Muntu-siswa STPDN, dan diakhiri dengan berita tentang geng Gazper di SMA 34 Pondok Labu. Ternyata di tahun 2008 kekerasan di kalangan remaja masih saja terjadi, berita yang terbaru adalah tentang ritual perpeloncoan geng remaja putri Nero dari Pati, kota kecil di Jawa Tengah dan kekerasan remaja putri di Kalimantan Tengah.
Seringkali kita merasa ngeri, prihatin dan tidak percaya dengan adanya fakta-fakta tersebut. Namun, tampaknya kekerasan memang telah menjadi bagian dari kehidupan remaja kita. Kekerasan antar sebaya atau bullying merupakan suatu tindak kekerasan fisik dan psikologis yang dilakukan seseorang atau kelompok, yang dimaksudkan untuk melukai, membuat takut atau membuat tertekan seseorang (anak atau siswa) lain yang dianggap lemah, yang biasanya secara fisik lebih lemah, minder dan kurang mempunyai teman, sehingga tidak mampu memertahankan diri. Alasan bullying seringkali tidak jelas, biasanya menggunakan kedok perpeloncoan, penggemblengan mental, ataupun aksi solidaritas.
Sebenarnya bullying tidak hanya meliputi kekerasan fisik, seperti memukul, menjambak, menampar, memalak, dll, tetapi juga dapat berbentuk kekerasan verbal, seperti memaki, mengejek, menggosip, dan berbentuk kekerasan psikologis, seperti mengintimidasi, mengucilkan, mendiskriminasikan. Berdasarkan sebuah survei terhadap perlakuan bullying, sebagian besar korban melaporkan bahwa mereka menerima perlakuan pelecehan secara psikologis (diremehkan). Kekerasan secara fisik, seperti didorong, dipukul, dan ditempeleng lebih umum di kalangan remaja pria.
Ada dua jenis pelaku bullying. Pertama, adalah pelaku utama, yaitu pihak yang merasa lebih berkuasa dan berinisiatif melakukan tindak kekerasan baik secara fisik maupun psikologis terhadap korban, dan kedua adalah pelaku pengikut, yaitu pihak yang ikut melakukan bullying berdasarkan solidaritas kelompok atau rasa setia kawan, konformitas, tuntutan kelompok, atau untuk mendapatkan penerimaan atau pengakuan kelompok. Di luar pihak pelaku dan korban sebenarnya ada sekelompok saksi, dimana saksi ini biasanya hanya bisa diam membiarkan kejadian berlangsung, tidak melakukan apapun untuk menolong korban, bahkan seringkali mendukung perlakuan bullying. Saksi cenderung tidak mau ikut campur disebabkan karena takut menjadi korban berikutnya, merasa korban pantas dibully, tidak mau menambah masalah atau tidak mau tahu.
Sebagai bagian dari masyarakat dan secara khusus sebagai orang tua, pasti kita bertanya-tanya mengapa remaja kita (bahkan remaja putri) dapat menjadi pelaku bullying, melakukan seangkaian kekerasan kepada sesama temannya. Perjalanan seorang anak tumbuh menjadi remaja pelaku agresi cukup kompleks, dapat dipengaruhi oleh berbagai faktor; biologis, psikologis dan sosialkultural. Secara biologis, ada kemungkinan bahwa beberapa anak secara genetik cenderung akan mengembangkan agresi dibanding anak yang lain. Dalam bukunya Developmental Psychopathology, Wenar & Kerig (2002) menambahkan bahwa agresi yang tinggi pada anak-anak dapat merupakan hasil dari abnormalitas neurologis.
Secara psikologis, anak yang agresif kurang memiliki kontrol diri dan sebenarnya memiliki ketrampilan sosial yang rendah; anak-anak ini memiliki kemampuan perspective taking yang rendah, empati terhadap orang lain yang tidak berkembang, dan salah mengartikan sinyal atau tanda-tanda sosial, mereka yakin bahwa agresi merupakan cara pemecahan masalah yang tepat dan efektif. Jika kita runut dari lingkungan keluarga, anak-anak yang mengembangkan perilaku agresif tumbuh dalam pengasuhan yang tidak kondusif; anak mengalami kelekatan (attachment) yang tidak aman dengan pengasuh terdekatnya, orang tua menerapkan disiplin yang terlalu keras ataupun terlalu longgar, dan biasanya ditemukan masalah psikologis pada orang tua; konflik suami-istri, depresi, bersikap antisosial, dan melakukan tindak kekerasan pada anggota keluarganya.
Terjadinya kekerasan antar sebaya semakin menguat mengingat adanya faktor pubertas dan krisis identitas, yang normal terjadi pada perkembangan remaja. Dalam rangka mencari identitas dan ingin eksis, biasanya remaja lalu gemar membentuk geng. Geng remaja sebenarnya sangat normal dan bisa berdampak positif, namun jika orientasi geng kemudian ’menyimpang’ hal ini kemudian menimbulkan banyak masalah. Dari relasi antar sebaya juga ditemukan bahwa beberapa remaja menjadi pelaku bullying karena ’balas dendam’ atas perlakuan penolakan dan kekerasan yang pernah dialami sebelumnya (misalnya saat di SD atau SMP).
Lingkungan secara makro pun turut berpengaruh terhadap munculnya bullying, baik secara langsung mauun tidak langsung. Secara sosiokultural, bullying dipandang sebagai wujud rasa frustrasi akibat tekanan hidup dan hasil imitasi dari lingkungan orang dewasa. Tanpa sadar, lingkungan memberikan referensi kepada remaja bahwa kekerasan bisa menjadi sebuah cara pemecahan masalah. Misalnya saja lingkungan preman yang sehari-hari dapat dilihat di sekitar mereka dan juga aksi kekerasan dari kelompok-kelompok massa. Belum lagi tontotan-tontonan kekerasan yang disuguhkan melalui media visual. Walaupun tak kasat mata, budaya feodal dan senioritas pun turut memberikan atmosfer dominansi dan menumbuhkan perilaku menindas.
Bullying harus diperangi. Bagaimanapun juga kita tidak dapat membiarkan generasi penerus kita menjadi penjahat-penjahat hak asasi manusia. Untuk mencegah dan menghambat munculnya tindak kekeraran di kalangan remaja, diperlukan peran dari semua pihak yang terkait dengan lingkungan kehidupan remaja. Sedini mungkin, anak-anak memperoleh lingkungan yang tepat. Keluarga-keluarga semestinya dapat menjadi tempat yang nyaman untuk anak dapat mengungkapkan pengalaman-pengalaman dan perasaan-perasaannya. Orang tua hendaknya mengevaluasi pola interaksi yang dimiliki selama ini dan menjadi model yang tepat dalam berinteraksi dengan orang lain. Berikan penguatan atau pujian pada perilaku pro sosial yang ditunjukkan oleh anak. Selanjutnya dorong anak untuk mengambangkan bakat atau minatnya dalam kegiatan-kegiatan dan orang tua tetap harus berkomunikasi dengan guru jika anak menunjukkan adanya masalah yang bersumber dari sekolah.
Untuk mencegah dan menekan tindakan bullying di sekolah, ada beberapa upaya yang dapat dilakukan oleh pihak sekolah, terutama di sekolah dasar sebagai lingkungan pendidikan formal pertama bagi anak. Selama ini, kebanyakan guru tidak terlalu memperhatikan apa yang terjadi di antara murid-muridnya. Sangat penting bahwa para guru memiliki pengetahuan dan ketrampilan mengenai pencegahan dan cara mengatasi bullying. Kurikulum sekolah dasar semestinya mengandung unsur pengembangan sikap prososial dan guru-guru memberikan penguatan pada penerapannya dalam kehidupan sehari-hari di sekolah. Sekolah sebaiknya mendukung kelompok-kelompok kegiatan agar diikuti oleh seluruh siswa. Selanjutnya sekolah menyediakan akses pengaduan atau forum dialog antara siswa dan sekolah, atau orang tua dan sekolah, dan membangun aturan sekolah dan sanksi yang jelas terhadap tindakan bullying.
Agnes Indar Etikawati, S.Psi, P.Si., M.Si, dosen pada Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Sanata Dharma, Yogyakarta
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Independence Holiday
OK first the trip to bandung is cancel due to too little people join. sigh. oh well at least i can stay at home, being lazy and watch Wall-E movie. anybody want to join. I already asked her, but she's busy. sigh
i just remember a nice dream from my sleep a few nights ago. It's a beautiful dream, but when i woke up i just feels not good. because the dreams is only a dream and it's not happening. My hearts just feels in wreck thinking of it. So what's the dream anyway? it's a secret.... (^_^)v
Just recently chat with bncc friends, and the words is not satisfying.... perhaps i can do something to help... sigh feeling depressed just by remember that conversation.... hey perhaps that's i why having those dreams....
see you blog
i just remember a nice dream from my sleep a few nights ago. It's a beautiful dream, but when i woke up i just feels not good. because the dreams is only a dream and it's not happening. My hearts just feels in wreck thinking of it. So what's the dream anyway? it's a secret.... (^_^)v
Just recently chat with bncc friends, and the words is not satisfying.... perhaps i can do something to help... sigh feeling depressed just by remember that conversation.... hey perhaps that's i why having those dreams....
see you blog
My New Router
Wow finally i have a wireless router. isn't it nice? i'm always a little techno guy in heart. Hehehe now i can share fastnet connection with my sister's laptop.
Actually it's my own laptop anyway. Can you imagine that? my spoiled sister always complaining that her laptop doesn't have a wireless built-in. and now that recently her laptop power outlet is a kind of broken, and she needs a laptop, so i gave my laptop. well it's ok since i have a new lcd anyway so enjoy playing in my pc than my laptop.
My laptop is ASUS M5200NP. kind of old buyt sturdy and the only thing that broken is the battery. it can only work on a/c power outlet.
So my wireless router is WRT54G2. black and sleek. kind of cool. it's so easy to setup. i just plug in the internet, and connect the network cable. and voila, i have an internet router.
First try to connect in the internet in the pc. OK done. it's working/
Second tried to connect using Laptop. failed because i set it using WEP security....
Third tried using my nintendo DS to connect to internet for playing Mario Kart. it's worked. i'm so happy.
lastly, i change the setting to WPA security keys. and the laptop can connect to internet now. humm why it can only connect using WPA? humm that's mean if i want to connect using NDS i have to change it using WEP, thus the laptop cannot connect.
ow well not everything is perfect....
see you blog
Actually it's my own laptop anyway. Can you imagine that? my spoiled sister always complaining that her laptop doesn't have a wireless built-in. and now that recently her laptop power outlet is a kind of broken, and she needs a laptop, so i gave my laptop. well it's ok since i have a new lcd anyway so enjoy playing in my pc than my laptop.
My laptop is ASUS M5200NP. kind of old buyt sturdy and the only thing that broken is the battery. it can only work on a/c power outlet.
So my wireless router is WRT54G2. black and sleek. kind of cool. it's so easy to setup. i just plug in the internet, and connect the network cable. and voila, i have an internet router.
First try to connect in the internet in the pc. OK done. it's working/
Second tried to connect using Laptop. failed because i set it using WEP security....
Third tried using my nintendo DS to connect to internet for playing Mario Kart. it's worked. i'm so happy.
lastly, i change the setting to WPA security keys. and the laptop can connect to internet now. humm why it can only connect using WPA? humm that's mean if i want to connect using NDS i have to change it using WEP, thus the laptop cannot connect.
ow well not everything is perfect....
see you blog
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Bandung Next Week
So we have a plan to go to Bandung Next Week. hooray. i think i'm in need of vacation....
my god the work is slowly killing me. ehm so we talk about my work first ok? it's my blog and i can do anything heh?
my first comment. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa my god please save me from this living hell.
yes it quite hectic last week. it's what i called the "closing month of accounting and finance". and the ERP software just don't do anything that i said. i said "sleep! god d**mned it". and the Black May problem arise again this July. Many GL datas are gone. WTF????? gone again. OMG what should i do? my manager immediatelly cancel all my short term job and take me to the server in cibitung... *sigh* i thinks the SQL got something to do about it, then again what am i? a pro in SQL ? unlikely. Or perhaps a virus? the server has a virus, i just know it when the server suddenly semi-hang and the fan just bursting like crazy, and i decided to restart. (critical process in task manager up to 100% and sqlserver memory takes 600MB, and memory left about 15 MB)
when the server restart, it show a message about "Surabaya or something and about lost love and bla bla". yupp definitely a virus. the manager request me to immediately fix it after this closing month to stop this craziness. yeah i'm almost crazy there too you know. right now planning on formatting the server and auditing the data.
Talking about auditing, i think my new role is to inspect all erp data, apps, everthing related to ERP for all unit. in other words, auditing application started from exes, table structure, module features, dts and all aspects. hummm i kind of excited about this, though i'm not showing it. i still have my poker face, you know.
(^_^)v ===> happy excited coz a new challenge
so after all the hectic my friends offered me to go to bandung to relax and have some fun. hmm sounds good, why not. i can offered them to use my car. with Lukas and Felicia. and Hardi. i dunno perhaps i should invited someone.... replies until now... none. courage to ask ... well 50% more less. (wiewie is being mysterious)
well just checking about the cost of motel in bandung and looking for some good place to hang out... the schedule 16 - 17 august or perhaps 18. i dunno no detail plans right now. all i can tell is the transportation is no problem.
thinking of vacation to korea or just stay at home with sister and let my parent take vacation on a tour to korea. well if i have to stay at home then i will have rave party at home.
Notes Wiewie's definition of Rave Party = sleeping like a bear, with many foods around me and pc downloading animes or doing something unimportant like playing nds. all night and day long"
see you blog
my god the work is slowly killing me. ehm so we talk about my work first ok? it's my blog and i can do anything heh?
my first comment. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa my god please save me from this living hell.
yes it quite hectic last week. it's what i called the "closing month of accounting and finance". and the ERP software just don't do anything that i said. i said "sleep! god d**mned it". and the Black May problem arise again this July. Many GL datas are gone. WTF????? gone again. OMG what should i do? my manager immediatelly cancel all my short term job and take me to the server in cibitung... *sigh* i thinks the SQL got something to do about it, then again what am i? a pro in SQL ? unlikely. Or perhaps a virus? the server has a virus, i just know it when the server suddenly semi-hang and the fan just bursting like crazy, and i decided to restart. (critical process in task manager up to 100% and sqlserver memory takes 600MB, and memory left about 15 MB)
when the server restart, it show a message about "Surabaya or something and about lost love and bla bla". yupp definitely a virus. the manager request me to immediately fix it after this closing month to stop this craziness. yeah i'm almost crazy there too you know. right now planning on formatting the server and auditing the data.
Talking about auditing, i think my new role is to inspect all erp data, apps, everthing related to ERP for all unit. in other words, auditing application started from exes, table structure, module features, dts and all aspects. hummm i kind of excited about this, though i'm not showing it. i still have my poker face, you know.
(^_^)v ===> happy excited coz a new challenge
so after all the hectic my friends offered me to go to bandung to relax and have some fun. hmm sounds good, why not. i can offered them to use my car. with Lukas and Felicia. and Hardi. i dunno perhaps i should invited someone.... replies until now... none. courage to ask ... well 50% more less. (wiewie is being mysterious)
well just checking about the cost of motel in bandung and looking for some good place to hang out... the schedule 16 - 17 august or perhaps 18. i dunno no detail plans right now. all i can tell is the transportation is no problem.
thinking of vacation to korea or just stay at home with sister and let my parent take vacation on a tour to korea. well if i have to stay at home then i will have rave party at home.
Notes Wiewie's definition of Rave Party = sleeping like a bear, with many foods around me and pc downloading animes or doing something unimportant like playing nds. all night and day long"
see you blog
Travian
Thanks to my friend, Hardi, now i'm joining the hub in playing Travian.
it seems that travian is a war games from german. it has won the award for best games ideas in 2006 germany. hmm cools. and i'm sure some scientist is making a great breakthrough in studying this war behaviour statistics just like i know from www.neopets.com that the statistic is used for study.
FYI. Travian is web based war game. using village as our home base and we can select one of the 3 races; Gauls, Teutons, and Romans. the visualization is cute and simple. and there so many advance feature for more advance player. and luckily i'm using Mozilla as my browser and if you're using GreaseMonkey as an add-on, you can install many script to support your playing experience in Travian. Because keep tracking the resource, upgrading and counting resource is kind a hard and tedious and stupid too.
my favourite script are
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/15943 ==> beyond language
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/25524 ==> Travian: Village Manager 1.6.
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/28763 ==> Travian: Resource++ v4
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/26068 ==> queue later
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/11045 ==> mod kit
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/11724 ==> extended map
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/29206 ==> checking nature resource on hover
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/25913 ==> large map (not tested)
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/30873 ==> auto login. good for 1 user and 1 pc
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/27377 ==> using Q textbox to fill X and Y
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/26084 ==> easy message delete
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/23577 ==> attack builder wave complex (not tested)
and there is also a website dedicated to view the large map and the statistic view of some aspect
http://travian.ws/analyser.pl?s=id1
The world in travian is in many countries such as Indonesia (1 online and 1 more in the future) and already restarted several times. You can also buy gold using credit card to get more bonus in game.
i also join an alliance with my friends and hopefully can achieve more rankings. hehehe talk about war games. today i just receive from one of my easy-target-village to not attack him too often. i said sorry and i will not attack him/her for 1 week from now. *sigh* i think i'm just too nice. don't you think? If my alliance friends know about this they would say "for god sake, wiewie, we are in an online war games. the games designs it so we have to attack other village and raid their resource. you don't have to say sorry. noob!!!!" hahahaha
continue to next post about Bandung
it seems that travian is a war games from german. it has won the award for best games ideas in 2006 germany. hmm cools. and i'm sure some scientist is making a great breakthrough in studying this war behaviour statistics just like i know from www.neopets.com that the statistic is used for study.
FYI. Travian is web based war game. using village as our home base and we can select one of the 3 races; Gauls, Teutons, and Romans. the visualization is cute and simple. and there so many advance feature for more advance player. and luckily i'm using Mozilla as my browser and if you're using GreaseMonkey as an add-on, you can install many script to support your playing experience in Travian. Because keep tracking the resource, upgrading and counting resource is kind a hard and tedious and stupid too.
my favourite script are
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/15943 ==> beyond language
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/25524 ==> Travian: Village Manager 1.6.
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/28763 ==> Travian: Resource++ v4
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/26068 ==> queue later
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/11045 ==> mod kit
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/11724 ==> extended map
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/29206 ==> checking nature resource on hover
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/25913 ==> large map (not tested)
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/30873 ==> auto login. good for 1 user and 1 pc
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/27377 ==> using Q textbox to fill X and Y
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/26084 ==> easy message delete
http://userscripts.org/scripts/show/23577 ==> attack builder wave complex (not tested)
and there is also a website dedicated to view the large map and the statistic view of some aspect
http://travian.ws/analyser.pl?s=id1
The world in travian is in many countries such as Indonesia (1 online and 1 more in the future) and already restarted several times. You can also buy gold using credit card to get more bonus in game.
i also join an alliance with my friends and hopefully can achieve more rankings. hehehe talk about war games. today i just receive from one of my easy-target-village to not attack him too often. i said sorry and i will not attack him/her for 1 week from now. *sigh* i think i'm just too nice. don't you think? If my alliance friends know about this they would say "for god sake, wiewie, we are in an online war games. the games designs it so we have to attack other village and raid their resource. you don't have to say sorry. noob!!!!" hahahaha
continue to next post about Bandung
Game History From Me
berikut adalah cuplikan posting saya di www.forum.bncc.net tanggal 4 Juli 2008
to me nds still the best.
aku tipe org yg gak suka teknologi wasted dan lebih suka smart technology sih.
maksdnya sih kayaq gini. ada hp yg kameranya 2 di depan n belakang. totally wasted. yg smart adalah hp yg pasang cermin atau besi mengkilap di samping lensa belakang. lebih smart.
kalo di psp yang kumaksud adalah umd disc nya. bener2 aneh pilihan sony untuk membuat umd di belakang nya psp. motornya itu loh. gak kebayang deh umur batere dan panasnya. kenapa dia gak bikin usb 8 gb atau 4 gb yg bisa dicabut copot kayaq mp3 player (just my dream). biasanya handheld sih pakai rom,
terus yg buat aku ill feel sih waktu awal psp promosi dan banyak berita2 interview dengan sony atau jubirnya koq kesannya sony arogan banget. (saya memang suka baca berita game). banyak yg bisa aku kasih contoh sih misalnya masalah batere gak tahan lama = katanya biar gamer gak terlalu sering main. atau waktu pilih umd sebagai pilihan media = katanya no problem pasti sukses. atau tombol kedeketan ama layar = salah gamer kenapa tekennya kuat banget (yg terakhir cuma imajinasi saya)
so bukannya memojokkan psp. emang psp ada kelebihannya di banding nds. yaitu grafis yang super. n mungkin ukurannya lebih besar sih (gak tertarik handheld yg lebih besar dari gameboy). i prefer nds karena playabilitynya lebih asik (pakai touch screen loh dan kadang tiup pakai mic) *cuma ngebales sony yg bilang kalo pemakai nds adalah anak2 yg belum dewasa dan mereka akan jadi dewasa kalo main psp.....* yah sejujurnya sih semua pemilik nds yg kukenal adalah para keponakan ku yg notabene sekitar 4-6 sd.... sigh
so kalo sony gak rese, apakah sy akan beli psp? mungkin. kalo rese? ya sudah pasti illfeel duluan deh.
karena postingnya udah panjang. sekalian juga deh cerita soal nintendo.
dulu nintendo juga pernah rese. waktu jaman nes sampai snes kan seri final fantasy berjaya terus kan? dan nintendo selalu pakai rom. kebalikan dari handheld, consol rumahan sebaiknya pakai media yg lebih gede n powerful kayaq CD atau DVD. suatu langkah yg disarankan squaresoft pada nintendo. tujuannya sih karena media rom saat itu sangat terbatas dan squaresoft mau buat game FF yg super keren jadi sulit.
lalu nintendo ogah upgrade walau squaresoft yg sudah menjadi big company memohon-mohon. dan pindahlah squaresoft kepada sony. yaitu ps yang menggunakan media cd... waktu itu gw illfeel sama nintendo dan arogansinya.
snes pun mati dan emulatornya berjaya, Sony PS jadi raja konsol, ps2 juga jadi raja, ps3 belum (berharap wii yg menang sih karena namanya mirip nama sya *bleh*) , lalu saya ketiduran.... zzzz.
sekian history yg saya ketahui.
game yg sedang dimainkan :
The world end with you
drone tactics
megaman starforce 2 zerker x saurian
summon night 2
nanostray 2
FF TA A2
FF Rev wings
kapan disgaea 2 muncul sih....
see you blog
to me nds still the best.
aku tipe org yg gak suka teknologi wasted dan lebih suka smart technology sih.
maksdnya sih kayaq gini. ada hp yg kameranya 2 di depan n belakang. totally wasted. yg smart adalah hp yg pasang cermin atau besi mengkilap di samping lensa belakang. lebih smart.
kalo di psp yang kumaksud adalah umd disc nya. bener2 aneh pilihan sony untuk membuat umd di belakang nya psp. motornya itu loh. gak kebayang deh umur batere dan panasnya. kenapa dia gak bikin usb 8 gb atau 4 gb yg bisa dicabut copot kayaq mp3 player (just my dream). biasanya handheld sih pakai rom,
terus yg buat aku ill feel sih waktu awal psp promosi dan banyak berita2 interview dengan sony atau jubirnya koq kesannya sony arogan banget. (saya memang suka baca berita game). banyak yg bisa aku kasih contoh sih misalnya masalah batere gak tahan lama = katanya biar gamer gak terlalu sering main. atau waktu pilih umd sebagai pilihan media = katanya no problem pasti sukses. atau tombol kedeketan ama layar = salah gamer kenapa tekennya kuat banget (yg terakhir cuma imajinasi saya)
so bukannya memojokkan psp. emang psp ada kelebihannya di banding nds. yaitu grafis yang super. n mungkin ukurannya lebih besar sih (gak tertarik handheld yg lebih besar dari gameboy). i prefer nds karena playabilitynya lebih asik (pakai touch screen loh dan kadang tiup pakai mic) *cuma ngebales sony yg bilang kalo pemakai nds adalah anak2 yg belum dewasa dan mereka akan jadi dewasa kalo main psp.....* yah sejujurnya sih semua pemilik nds yg kukenal adalah para keponakan ku yg notabene sekitar 4-6 sd.... sigh
so kalo sony gak rese, apakah sy akan beli psp? mungkin. kalo rese? ya sudah pasti illfeel duluan deh.
karena postingnya udah panjang. sekalian juga deh cerita soal nintendo.
dulu nintendo juga pernah rese. waktu jaman nes sampai snes kan seri final fantasy berjaya terus kan? dan nintendo selalu pakai rom. kebalikan dari handheld, consol rumahan sebaiknya pakai media yg lebih gede n powerful kayaq CD atau DVD. suatu langkah yg disarankan squaresoft pada nintendo. tujuannya sih karena media rom saat itu sangat terbatas dan squaresoft mau buat game FF yg super keren jadi sulit.
lalu nintendo ogah upgrade walau squaresoft yg sudah menjadi big company memohon-mohon. dan pindahlah squaresoft kepada sony. yaitu ps yang menggunakan media cd... waktu itu gw illfeel sama nintendo dan arogansinya.
snes pun mati dan emulatornya berjaya, Sony PS jadi raja konsol, ps2 juga jadi raja, ps3 belum (berharap wii yg menang sih karena namanya mirip nama sya *bleh*) , lalu saya ketiduran.... zzzz.
sekian history yg saya ketahui.
game yg sedang dimainkan :
The world end with you
drone tactics
megaman starforce 2 zerker x saurian
summon night 2
nanostray 2
FF TA A2
FF Rev wings
kapan disgaea 2 muncul sih....
see you blog
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Dark Knight in FX Mall
Today i watch Dark Knight in FX. it's a new mall. I think it's a hip mall with colorful decoration and attractive especially for young people. and it has 7 floor sliding. Isn't that cool? You for opening season you can ride it by showing it the bill from anything you buy in the mall. Unfortunately almost everyone wants to ride so it's very crowded.
ok then straight to Platinum 21. Wow the character sure develop much further. Some plot i already recognize and i knew that the woman should died. hehehe sorry a little spoiler there. The Joker is a very interesting character. Very mad of course and the intense of his character clashing with batman is very heart taking and makes your mind crazy. Oh yeah did i mention that this movie is quite long about 2,5 hours. When batman finally capture joker i thought the movie is over and finally happy ending but it turn out still have a very intense climax again right until the end.
Now i understand why batman comic so popular, i reference it to the comic because they said that dark knight 1 and 2 reference closely with the comic. The path to become crusader of justice is not easy. The movie shows us about 3 people that fought crimes with their own way. Gordon as simple police officer to do things right and in course. Harvey Dent who wants to capture crimes in court politics along with the complex tolerance and smart moves. Batman the vigilante who can do things outside the law that the two others cannot do. Bruce wayne character is not so revealed in the movie ( i guess they already show bruce to much in all the 1st movie)
Out of the three who can stand last against this Joker guy?
ah feeling sleepy now. i guess i better sleep.
see you blog
ok then straight to Platinum 21. Wow the character sure develop much further. Some plot i already recognize and i knew that the woman should died. hehehe sorry a little spoiler there. The Joker is a very interesting character. Very mad of course and the intense of his character clashing with batman is very heart taking and makes your mind crazy. Oh yeah did i mention that this movie is quite long about 2,5 hours. When batman finally capture joker i thought the movie is over and finally happy ending but it turn out still have a very intense climax again right until the end.
Now i understand why batman comic so popular, i reference it to the comic because they said that dark knight 1 and 2 reference closely with the comic. The path to become crusader of justice is not easy. The movie shows us about 3 people that fought crimes with their own way. Gordon as simple police officer to do things right and in course. Harvey Dent who wants to capture crimes in court politics along with the complex tolerance and smart moves. Batman the vigilante who can do things outside the law that the two others cannot do. Bruce wayne character is not so revealed in the movie ( i guess they already show bruce to much in all the 1st movie)
Out of the three who can stand last against this Joker guy?
ah feeling sleepy now. i guess i better sleep.
see you blog
Another Lesson in Wiewie's life
so i finally understood something in my relationship with many of my friends. well at least one of them. Some of them are couples and that't a tricky things you know.... because i knew both of them. The tricky thing if they separated for a while or ever or just mad at each other. Guess who's between them... not me of course, i'm not that tentative or best doctor in town.
But i occasionally meet at least one of them. Just so strange that suddenly one doesn't speak of others. hummmmm my love instinct kick in, and i just shut up. *laughing* it doesn't have to mean i'm very empathy to her you know. It just that i'm a kind of people that doesn't want to help those who don't want to help them selves. If she want to speak about it, i'm all ear.
So what's the lesson anyway? well for me is if a couple doesn't start talking about the other couple well just don't started it. who knows they already separated (i'm not in gossip's circle society) or just don't want to talk about it.
Today i learn some facts about a couple who happen to be my friends. dunno what happen with them, but i do care about them (one of them have a special birthday that i always remember) and that's why i act as the way i act now.
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Another share of heart again from me.
sigh what else beside sharing, it is my blog you know.
Talking about advice. sure giving advice, solution and support is easy but how do you know what's right for them? Once i'm a junior seeking advice from my seniors, and now it's my turn giving advice to my young friends.
Being a technical guy i'm so straight forward, so they asked i answered, they have a problem i gives solution. Everything so simple so those day. But now i realized that not all problem needs solutions and not all advice needs to be given. Giving advice is more like a double-edge sword to me. If the intention is good can it go wrong ? yes it can. So in my hearts i'm truly wish they can understand that judgement should be given both sides because everything in life have two sides (more if you creative).
for example you see a man doing hard work. what do they think?
some think "he is dilligent"
some think "he probably trying to impress the boss"
"Dualism in life" that is what i say.... If you were given advice especially from someone that so sure with him self (like me) or someone that you highly respect, will you take them for granted? i surely hope not.
see you blog
But i occasionally meet at least one of them. Just so strange that suddenly one doesn't speak of others. hummmmm my love instinct kick in, and i just shut up. *laughing* it doesn't have to mean i'm very empathy to her you know. It just that i'm a kind of people that doesn't want to help those who don't want to help them selves. If she want to speak about it, i'm all ear.
So what's the lesson anyway? well for me is if a couple doesn't start talking about the other couple well just don't started it. who knows they already separated (i'm not in gossip's circle society) or just don't want to talk about it.
Today i learn some facts about a couple who happen to be my friends. dunno what happen with them, but i do care about them (one of them have a special birthday that i always remember) and that's why i act as the way i act now.
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Another share of heart again from me.
sigh what else beside sharing, it is my blog you know.
Talking about advice. sure giving advice, solution and support is easy but how do you know what's right for them? Once i'm a junior seeking advice from my seniors, and now it's my turn giving advice to my young friends.
Being a technical guy i'm so straight forward, so they asked i answered, they have a problem i gives solution. Everything so simple so those day. But now i realized that not all problem needs solutions and not all advice needs to be given. Giving advice is more like a double-edge sword to me. If the intention is good can it go wrong ? yes it can. So in my hearts i'm truly wish they can understand that judgement should be given both sides because everything in life have two sides (more if you creative).
for example you see a man doing hard work. what do they think?
some think "he is dilligent"
some think "he probably trying to impress the boss"
"Dualism in life" that is what i say.... If you were given advice especially from someone that so sure with him self (like me) or someone that you highly respect, will you take them for granted? i surely hope not.
see you blog
Friday, July 11, 2008
New Blog Widget
yup akhirny ada sedikit perubahan di blog ku. cuma tambah dikit sih....
* recent readers
* rss feed
* related link
sedang berpikir untuk tambahin translation widget dan label clouds.
Oh iya selama bbrp hari ini aku pusink banget cari widget untuk recent readers. gilaa susah banget carinya. udah obok-obok web mybloglog, lihat help, search google.... pusink banget. akhirnya ketemu juga link helpnya disini,
ternyata emang karena arsitektur webnya jadi kelihatan susah dan terkubur di link2 lain. kata authornya sih akan dibuat lebih simpel carinya.... i feel so happy that i finally have a recent readers widgets. kata fany "buat apaan ada gituan, yang lihat blog u kan gak ada!!! hahahahaha" jahat banget ya dia (^_^)v
kan banyak pembaca rahasia.... hehehe
hummmmmmm kayaq blog aku keren banget aja. hahahaha....
besok si Fany mau Jakarta. hehehehe itu rahasia gak ya Fan? nanti banyak fans yg ngejar pula lagi. di DagDigDug.com dia terpilih jadi nona manizzzz. ckckckckck astaga banget deh. tapi congrats ya.
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Fany Si Blogger Manis
Fany
Siapa tak kenal Fany, blogger manis dari Semarang? Di tengah gemuruh dan keriuhan ranah blog yang kian sesak, Fany Ariasari, 25 tahun, ibarat permata mutu manikam yang menyedot perhatian para blogger.
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see you blog
* recent readers
* rss feed
* related link
sedang berpikir untuk tambahin translation widget dan label clouds.
Oh iya selama bbrp hari ini aku pusink banget cari widget untuk recent readers. gilaa susah banget carinya. udah obok-obok web mybloglog, lihat help, search google.... pusink banget. akhirnya ketemu juga link helpnya disini,
ternyata emang karena arsitektur webnya jadi kelihatan susah dan terkubur di link2 lain. kata authornya sih akan dibuat lebih simpel carinya.... i feel so happy that i finally have a recent readers widgets. kata fany "buat apaan ada gituan, yang lihat blog u kan gak ada!!! hahahahaha" jahat banget ya dia (^_^)v
kan banyak pembaca rahasia.... hehehe
hummmmmmm kayaq blog aku keren banget aja. hahahaha....
besok si Fany mau Jakarta. hehehehe itu rahasia gak ya Fan? nanti banyak fans yg ngejar pula lagi. di DagDigDug.com dia terpilih jadi nona manizzzz. ckckckckck astaga banget deh. tapi congrats ya.
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Fany Si Blogger Manis
Fany
Siapa tak kenal Fany, blogger manis dari Semarang? Di tengah gemuruh dan keriuhan ranah blog yang kian sesak, Fany Ariasari, 25 tahun, ibarat permata mutu manikam yang menyedot perhatian para blogger.
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see you blog
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Kartel SMS
tadi baru aja isi komentar di detik mengenai kartel SMS. kata para operator cara kpk hitung kerugiannya salah. malah dengan adanya berbagai biaya dan lainnya serta inflasi justru konsumen diuntungkan, kan harga sms selalu tetap 350... yah jadi kesel dikit sih. jadi aku sedikit komentar pedas
yah intinya susah menjadi "A Good Corporate for Consumer". kenapa ya kadang perusahaan itu arogan ,dan pinginnya duit melulu.. gak punya good intention pada kita. huh
semoga company-ku tidak seperti itu.
eh karena sekarang aku udah ada fastnet unlimited 384 jadi bisa lebih banyak bermain di internet. mumpung abis beli buku "Tips Trik Pilihan Blogger" jadi aku mau tes beberapa triknya deh.
semoga blog ku tidak hancur.
see you blog
yah intinya susah menjadi "A Good Corporate for Consumer". kenapa ya kadang perusahaan itu arogan ,dan pinginnya duit melulu.. gak punya good intention pada kita. huh
semoga company-ku tidak seperti itu.
eh karena sekarang aku udah ada fastnet unlimited 384 jadi bisa lebih banyak bermain di internet. mumpung abis beli buku "Tips Trik Pilihan Blogger" jadi aku mau tes beberapa triknya deh.
semoga blog ku tidak hancur.
see you blog
Monday, June 30, 2008
PS. I Love You
Salah satu film dvd yg baru tadi malam aku tonton.
*sigh* sedih banget... tapi aku kagum ama cowoknya. gila pinter abis. semuanya demi cewek yg dia cintai.... hiks....
salah satu alasan kenapa aku gak suka film sedih. bikin depresi waktu filmnya selesai. yah setidaknya ada secercah harapan di akhir film. dibilang happy ya tidak ,dibilang sad sih sepanjang film. walau diselepin humor2 romantis (ada juga humor situasi)
"My fiancee broke up with me and going with my best friend"
"my best friends is a woman"
"she said that she could stay with me if i were a woman"
"hmm carcastrated me will be a step toward that goal isn't it?"
"actually my best friends is actually my ex-ex-fiancee"
"and she is my business partner, we started a business with my money"
"so not only that i lose my fiancee, but also my business partner and my money also."
yah penderitaan seorang cowok. kasihan sampai tertawa melihat penderitaan org lain.
Note: Oh iya ada 2 temen cewek special yg ulang tahun tgl 1 juli nanti. hohoho karena belum waktunya nanti dulu aja deh selamatnya.
see you later blog
*sigh* sedih banget... tapi aku kagum ama cowoknya. gila pinter abis. semuanya demi cewek yg dia cintai.... hiks....
salah satu alasan kenapa aku gak suka film sedih. bikin depresi waktu filmnya selesai. yah setidaknya ada secercah harapan di akhir film. dibilang happy ya tidak ,dibilang sad sih sepanjang film. walau diselepin humor2 romantis (ada juga humor situasi)
"My fiancee broke up with me and going with my best friend"
"my best friends is a woman"
"she said that she could stay with me if i were a woman"
"hmm carcastrated me will be a step toward that goal isn't it?"
"actually my best friends is actually my ex-ex-fiancee"
"and she is my business partner, we started a business with my money"
"so not only that i lose my fiancee, but also my business partner and my money also."
yah penderitaan seorang cowok. kasihan sampai tertawa melihat penderitaan org lain.
Note: Oh iya ada 2 temen cewek special yg ulang tahun tgl 1 juli nanti. hohoho karena belum waktunya nanti dulu aja deh selamatnya.
see you later blog
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
My Uncle's Wedding
Yes the past two weeks are very important to my whole family because my uncle (the last child) is getting married.
I'm also very happy for him since he is the youngest of my uncles and aunts, we were close enough. I think he is very strong will and you could say i idolize him.
To start with he is handicapped with his left hand unable to move since birth, but that didn't stop him from mastering kung-fu and taekwondo (one of the reason i join taekwondo too). he's smart too, graduating from binus and working as IT in some companies. now he has full support to maintain company networking and because of his hardwork receive many appraisal from main headquarter in singapore and financial support to his wedding. *hehehe quite a feat huh*
my mother especially support him and his currently wife to organize and doing some decoration at my uncles house. my sister also help many things too. Many relatives from foreign also come to the house and i got to do my job as a driver. *huff* driving from jakarta to cikupa is quite stressfull too.... not to mention boring in a highway.
sometimes my and my sister help to pickup them at the airport too. but it's not for vain because in the end, the party was great and the dinner at night before reception was fabolous.
14 d before reception : teppai to the girls house
3 d before reception : picking some relatives at the airport
2 d before reception : wedding in the church
1 d before reception : dinner at satoo restaurant (oh my god the tiramisu is like heaven)
at reception : we (me and sister) stand at guest receiver desk....
well i just wish a happy and great marriage life to my uncle and his wifes....
oh no, now i have to remember more names and faces of the new families.... (my uncle's wife has 6 siblings)
I'm also very happy for him since he is the youngest of my uncles and aunts, we were close enough. I think he is very strong will and you could say i idolize him.
To start with he is handicapped with his left hand unable to move since birth, but that didn't stop him from mastering kung-fu and taekwondo (one of the reason i join taekwondo too). he's smart too, graduating from binus and working as IT in some companies. now he has full support to maintain company networking and because of his hardwork receive many appraisal from main headquarter in singapore and financial support to his wedding. *hehehe quite a feat huh*
my mother especially support him and his currently wife to organize and doing some decoration at my uncles house. my sister also help many things too. Many relatives from foreign also come to the house and i got to do my job as a driver. *huff* driving from jakarta to cikupa is quite stressfull too.... not to mention boring in a highway.
sometimes my and my sister help to pickup them at the airport too. but it's not for vain because in the end, the party was great and the dinner at night before reception was fabolous.
14 d before reception : teppai to the girls house
3 d before reception : picking some relatives at the airport
2 d before reception : wedding in the church
1 d before reception : dinner at satoo restaurant (oh my god the tiramisu is like heaven)
at reception : we (me and sister) stand at guest receiver desk....
well i just wish a happy and great marriage life to my uncle and his wifes....
oh no, now i have to remember more names and faces of the new families.... (my uncle's wife has 6 siblings)
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Fox Pro
ah Fox pro, what an ancient programming language. at least to me. but now i have to bear it due to my work. I'm now coding in Visual Fox Pro 6.0 and using an weird but nifty add-in called MaxFrame. Well i should say that using the MaxFrame can speed up creating new form and many more but it also very complex and when it got an error, i totally confused with it and.... of course panicking and asking my senior colleages to see it for me....
well so far so good, but the situation very unstructure and hectic. The manager ask me to speed up my pace so i can keep up with the client request and the remaining deadline. wow a lot to ask but it's a challenge to me. i hope i can upgrade my self with this kind of situation.
work work work....
well so far so good, but the situation very unstructure and hectic. The manager ask me to speed up my pace so i can keep up with the client request and the remaining deadline. wow a lot to ask but it's a challenge to me. i hope i can upgrade my self with this kind of situation.
work work work....
Thursday, February 21, 2008
Weird Season
today at my new office. so winter.... i even have to bring my jacket.
and outside still rain now and then. and the worst thing is, it rains in the morning, stop at noon and rain again when i started go home. *sigh* can't complain to father nature (god)
Well at the moment i study JSP especially for NXJ framework. really weird language to me but still a new experience for me. i hope i can finish "eat" all material this month. the manager and some colleagues often going abroad to singapore or sometimes to some cities in indonesia. hmmm yummy travelling. (^_^)v when will my turn?
Have some rumour about my club LKMM. hmm i hope i have the time bring the issues out for them. at the moment i'm really busy sorting my new life as an employee.
well i guess this is enough for the moment
happy working guys and gals
and outside still rain now and then. and the worst thing is, it rains in the morning, stop at noon and rain again when i started go home. *sigh* can't complain to father nature (god)
Well at the moment i study JSP especially for NXJ framework. really weird language to me but still a new experience for me. i hope i can finish "eat" all material this month. the manager and some colleagues often going abroad to singapore or sometimes to some cities in indonesia. hmmm yummy travelling. (^_^)v when will my turn?
Have some rumour about my club LKMM. hmm i hope i have the time bring the issues out for them. at the moment i'm really busy sorting my new life as an employee.
well i guess this is enough for the moment
happy working guys and gals
Monday, February 04, 2008
New Job
Well finally i have a job again. started from 1 Feb 2008 i works as an outsource programmer for iforte.
sigh so many things to do and adjust at the same time.
wish me luck then
sigh so many things to do and adjust at the same time.
wish me luck then
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